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Thursday, February 11, 2010

Valentine's Guest Blog: Cate Masters

My Valentine's Romance event continues with today's special guest, erotic author Cate Masters!

Cate will give away a PDF of any of her stories to a random commenter, so fire away! Check out available titles HERE.

Seeing Red This Valentine’s Day

Romance means different things to different people. Men need a little extra help in this department. For some, it can be more of a chore than a pleasure. But it doesn't have to be that way! Even (or maybe especially) if you've been married forever, you can make the difference between the two. You won't need to spend anything more than time.

Valentine’s Day brings many images to mind. Flowers and candy. Dinner and a movie. Bleh. Been there, done that. I bet your guy’s thinking the same thing: another Valentine’s Day, another card.

Well, shake it up, baby. This year, do something different. Let your inner goddess warrior rise to the surface and unleash her on your unsuspecting mate.Plan a night he won’t soon forget!

To get him in the mood, wear red. Studies have proven that red signals something primal in a partner, something that calls to his inner warrior too. Red is the color of fire, so let him know you want to set him ablaze. No wonder red is associated with Valentine’s Day, and images of hearts. It literally sends a signal to the opposite sex and acts as an aphrodisiac, unexplainably and subliminally. Interestingly enough, in the study, men were asked how much they’d be willing to spend on a date with a woman, then viewed images of women wearing blue, green and red. Guess which were most likely to be asked out? And given the royal treatment to boot? Yep, the women wearing red.

Whether you’ve been married forever or just have your sights set on someone, be bold. Let loose those inhibitions and signal your passion in a way he won’t mistake. In this video, men discuss the ways woman approached them to express their interest. Licking a man’s face may sound feral and a bit crazy, but it certainly made an impression on this guy. And if you want to lay claim to someone who makes your inner goddess warrior howl, what better way? Cosmo has more ideas on dates guys will long remember.

Your inner warrior goddess knows what to do. This Valentine’s Day, let her lead the way. Her power and beauty will rise through you, and be irresistible as a siren’s call.


Bio:
Cate Masters writes fantasy/dark fantasy, historical, contemporary and speculative fiction, described by reviewers as “so compelling, I did not want to put it down,” “such romantic tales that really touch your soul,” “filled with action scenes which made it a riveting story,” and “the author weaves a great tale with a creative way of using words that makes the story refreshing to read.” Visit Cate online at http://catemasters.com, www.catemasters.blogspot.com or follow her on Facebook or Twitter.

24 comments:

  1. I know what color I'll be wearing come Valentine's! ;-) Great blog post, Cate!

    Jaime

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  2. This was great information...I do believe I'll be getting a new outfit today!

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  3. Thanks much, Jaime and Brigit! It's fun to shake things up a bit sometimes!

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  4. Oooh, I like the idea of getting rid of inhibitions. I love the color red so...

    Does it have to be a lot of red or just some lacy scraps? :)

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  5. Use your imagination, Mary! Like the realtors say: location, location, location. ;)

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  6. Red, Oh my goodness, I'd look like the Goodyear blimp.
    How about shoes, are red shoes enough? Wait I don't have any red shoes, or red clothes of any kind.
    Well I'll think red!

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  7. Red shoes sound great, Mary! Or a red scarf? Red earrings? Thinking red sounds like a good plan to me too! Happy Valentine's Day!

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  8. I'm seeing red, Cate, but in a good way! Great blog! Happy Valentines!

    Maggie

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  9. Great suggestions...now all I need to do is get a MAN! LOL

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  10. Even better, Maggie! :) Happy Valentine's Day to you!

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  11. I love the idea of getting in touch with my 'inner goddess warrior.' Great blog!

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  12. Hi Cate,
    Great post. I didn't know that about wearing red. I always knew red was for danger, so put the two bits of information together and Wow. Dynamite.

    Cheers
    Margaret

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  13. it's funny to read this cause on ellen today they were saying the complete opposite. They said something about men not liking red as much as they like black? Thats about all I caught. I don't usually watch ellen but McDreamy was on it. num num, anyway as I like you guys better than I like ellen so guess I'll be wearing red :)

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  14. She's in there, Kathleen. Let her run free! lol

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  15. You got it, Margaret - va va va voom! Thanks so much for stopping by.

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  16. Ellen plays for the other team, Meandi, so she doesn't care what men like, lol. Happy Valentine's Day!

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  17. Great fiery blog... yeah, I'd like to loose my inner warrior goddess... but the world would suffer... lol... so she'll have to be content to pen her stories.
    Being an Aries I've always had a huge fondness for red and wear it often.

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  18. Oo la la! Thanks for coming by to share your sexy secrets, Cate!!

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  19. Goddesses come in handy for all sorts of things, Savanna, lol.

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  20. Thanks for having me as a guest, Jade!

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  21. Thanks again everyone! I put everyone's name into a bowl and my daughter selected... (drum roll please)... Maggie Dove! Maggie, let me know which of my stories you'd like me to email you.
    Happy Valentine's Day, everyone!

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  22. I've got some red stillettos... will they work? They have werewolf eyes and teeth on them.. but a sexy red bow on the back!

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